Not only men initiate break ups in relationship, often this happen because women find another person but continue to dating with you. But under pressure they need to make some common mistakes that can tell a lot about their new passion.
There are a few fairly obvious signs that she has a boyfriend or at least signs you should be wary of and may warrant further investigation they include.
- Dates are always miles from home – is she afraid of being seen with another man?
- You never get to meet any of her friends – is she concerned they may tell the other man?
- You never get to meet any of her family – do they know she has another man?
- Her cell phone is classified top secret – is she keeping secrets from you?
- You don’t know her address or home phone number
- You don’t know exactly where she works
- She goes out shopping with the girls and never buys anything
- You almost have to book an appointment to see her
- Surprise calls and or visits are not welcome
- Her cell phone is switched off during ‘dating hours’ when you aren’t with her- could be embarrassing if the boyfriend answered the cell to you.
- All your dates are ‘in the week’ – where is she at weekends?
- New gold locket or other nice jewelry and it’s not Christmas or her birthday.
Some girls and some men think it is harmless fun to have more than one relationship running at the same time; it may be fun for them, but not for the poor victim(s) who is being treated like a fool, taken for a ride and lied to.
Other signs she has a new boyfriend are:
- She keeps calling you by the wrong name – the same wrong name!
- She gets your favorite food or drink wrong
- She forgets which is your favorite sports team
- She forgets you don’t have sugar in your coffee
- She’s seen all the latest movies
They say you have to have a good memory to be a good liar, okay we all make mistakes from time to time, but the same ‘wrong name’ every time?...food for thought.
Not all females have another boyfriend despite all the signs that she has got a boyfriend
- Could just be that she is trying to breakup, but doesn’t know how without hurting you.
- Could be she genuinely has a lot of other commitments
- Maybe she sees you more as a friend than a ‘boyfriend’
- She could have been badly hurt in another relationship and wants to keep things more distant for a while
Nobody likes being used or taken for a fool, so looking for the signs that she has a boyfriend or could have a boyfriend seems reasonable. Following her or becoming possessive and paranoid is not a good idea and will likely get you into deep trouble. If you are certain all the signs she has a boyfriend are there, confront her and ask her out right. Be very careful how you ask, carefully and gently is the best way, because if she hasn’t got another boyfriend then you could be spoiling a beautiful relationship. If she admits she does have another boyfriend then walk away and feel sorry for the other guy, she can’t be trusted.
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