There are many factors which can tell about your personality like body language, clothing style, signature but when I browsed the web for latest dating news I found one interesting article at Canoe.ca with new thing to consider in your daily life. And this thing is your shoes. A dating expert who have witten this article claims you can tell everything you need to know about a potential date by the type of shoes he's/she's wearing. How does it work?
According to Sozio, the biggest clues come from three key areas: Material, Condition and Maintenance.
Sozio says, "Material is a sign of his 'outer skin.' Is the material of his shoes dull, shined, or 'distressed?' Is it soft, flexible or easily scuffed? Or is it hard and rigid? The qualities that the material of his shoes expresses are a sign of what to expect from him in the relationship -- especially when you see a pattern.
"Perhaps he only has soft, easily scuffed suede shoes. That would indicate that he has a high level of sensitivity and he's easily hurt. Or if all his shoes are made with stiff and rigid material, he may be trying to protect himself or have put up a wall to his heart."
According to Sozio, "Condition trumps price every time. It's not about how much you have. It's about putting your best foot forward with what you do have. That is what gets you where you want to go, especially in a relationship. A no-name shoe in good condition speaks more highly of a man than a dirty, falling-apart Gucci loafer."
She adds, "If his shoes consistently are unraveled, frayed or distressed, you might want to ask yourself the question, 'Where is he is unraveling, fraying or distressed?' The condition of a man's shoes indicates the condition of everything else in his life. Including his future relationship with you."
Maintenance offers the last clue in the shoe analysis trifecta. Apparently, high maintenance isn't as bad as we thought.
Sozio says, "Just like relationships, shoes need maintenance, otherwise their condition will suffer. What is his attitude towards sole maintenance? Does he grumble and groan when his shoes need repair? Or does he do the necessary work to keep his shoes well maintained? When the condition of his shoes needs some work, what does he do? Throw them out and get a new pair? Or does he get them resoled? How a man takes care of his shoes indicates how well he takes care of himself. I call this the Soleology Trickle Down Theory, which indicates just how well he is able to take care of you."
And while Sozio's book focuses on men's shoes, she says that the shoe analysis works for either men or women.
What kind of shoes is a guy with great husband potential wearing?
"Great relationships, especially marriages, need compatibility. Make a list of the qualities you want to find in a husband. Then while out dating, take note of the qualities that his shoes express about him. Are they a match? Miles apart? Or is there some wiggle room? Be honest with yourself so you don't end up dating a (shoe) frog when you are really looking for a husband.
"The shoes that have 'husband potential' are the ones that express the very same qualities that you are looking for in a man. This is not a 'one size fits all' situation. You need to find the right fit for you. When it comes to relationships, the wrong fit hurts more than 'just a little.'"
What kinds of shoes do female gold diggers wear?
"Female gold diggers put a man's attention before themselves. That's why they usually wear what look like highly painful shoes. These shoes hurt your feet just by looking at them. They usually have lots of bangles and bobbles to attract a man's attention, with exotic 'huntress' skins like python. Their shoes communicate one thing: sex."
What kind of shoes does a low-maintenance girl wear?
"Low-maintenance gals don't look for a man to take care of them. That's why they are low-maintenance. For the most part, they already have it together and look at relationships from more of a sharing standpoint than needing someone else to make them happy.
"Low maintenance women wear all sorts of shoes but the one thing they have in common is a level of comfort. Even if they are wearing high heels, their shoes might be platforms (less of an actual heel) or a wedge to reduce wobbling. They go for looks and comfort to take good care of their feet while feeling beautiful through their choice in shoes."
What kind of shoes does the guy who's sleeping around wear?
Sozio warns, "Watch out for long and skinny flip-tip loafers! Those are player shoes, especially, when he's sporting exotic leather. White loafers without socks are also very player-esque!"
Are there other articles of clothing that can tell us as much as shoes?
"For women, reading a man by his shoes is very helpful and easy to do because most of us are already tuned into shoes. For the most part, we aren't as tuned into watches, dress shirts or ties. Shoes are the one article of clothing that we wear equally," explains Sozio.
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