So you like this guy and things are going great when you are together and you need to know how to invite him to stay the night. Perhaps day to day you don’t get to spend time together so when you see each other you want to make it last. There are many ways to accomplish this and some can add to what ever your agenda is for that night.
Obviously, the first and easiest way would to be to just ask him point blank. But I am thinking that if the situation were that easy for you then he would have already spent the night multiple times over. So the next step would be to plan your evening. Make sure your intentions are clear to yourself before you let on what your intentions are to your guy.
If you want to invite him to stay the night to spend quality time with him and cuddle, then the surefire way would be to call a few nights a head of time and ask him if he would like to spend the night over at your place by cuddling and fall a sleep together while watching a movie. This sets the tone of what your entire expectations are for the night, which can definitely take some pressure off of him. Whether he is shy or not you have definitely made it clear why would want him there and what you expect of him so there will be no confusion and most likely he will be more than happy to oblige.
How to invite him to stay the night to become intimate?
Remember, there are many ways to invite him to sex and you are always in winning position because if you are together for man than one week there is 95% of chances that he wants to stay with you whenever you are ready.
Obviously you pride yourself and aren’t going to ask him directly to stay the night and state your intentions for the night when it concerns intimacy. A completely indirect way to ask him would be to set a date up knowing he doesn’t have to be to work the next day or very early at least. Have a conversation before date night and let him know that you planned a simple evening of dinner and movie and you can even reverse the order to ensure you end up back at your place. Or just make dinner at your place and pick up a rental. Then ever so casually ask him what he would like for breakfast the next morning. This would be a huge hint to him that he is staying the night. Then be sure that you talk about the movie you are picking out. I would highly recommend something from the action genre unless he has a more specific taste. You don’t want to get a chic flick. By getting an action movie or similar, you have begun to set the tone that you aren’t asking him over so you can cuddle in his arms and fall asleep. He will probably be more excited for this date than you and will definitely look forward to the next time you won’t have to learn how to invite him to stay the night.
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