Some guys and some girls too think it is okay to date more than one person at a time, if you don’t like that idea then here are some signs he has a girlfriend that might help you out.
Here a few signs that might lead to bad news about your boyfriend:
- The excuse for not being able to take you out on weekends is he plays a lot of sport – but he never has a bruise
- All dates are miles from home – is he afraid someone will see him with you?
- You’ve never met any of his friends – do they know he is in another relationship?
- You’ve never met any of his family – what is he afraid of?
- You don’t have his cell phone number
- You don’t know where he actually lives or where he works
While not of all of these points mean they are signs he has a girlfriend, they are certainly worth making a note of. Maybe his idea for sport is playing chess, who knows and all your dates are miles from home because he likes driving.
But are those long blond hairs on his shoulder really his sister’s? He’s never mentioned a sister before.
Of course there are many reasons why he may not want to share too much information with you, maybe he has had a bad experience in the past with a relationship and feels he needs to take things really slow, but if he is giving off signs he has a girlfriend he could be on his own for a long time.
Maybe he has a child or children from a previous relationship and wants to dedicate most of his ‘free time’ to seeing his kids. This could be the answer to why he is never around on weekends, holidays or Christmas and could be the reason he is giving off signs he has a girlfriend who takes most of his ‘free time’.
We all know there are men and women who think it’s fine to have more than one relationship at a time, and for many of them even when they are caught out they don’t think they have done anything wrong and it’s acceptable behavior, if it’s so acceptable, why all the deceit?
Looking for the signs he has a girlfriend isn’t unreasonable, most people don’t want to be part of a love triangle, but over reacting or being paranoid, stalking or invading privacy is over stepping the bounds and is not acceptable behavior and you could find yourself in big trouble. If all the signs he has a girlfriend are present and you are pretty sure he has got another girlfriend, then calmly confront him. If you have proof or your instincts make you certain he has another girlfriend, then walk away. He can’t be trusted and good relationships are built on trust calmly walk away and count yourself lucky he didn’t get to deceive you.
Yes there are signs he has a girlfriend, but you have to be able to see and read them.
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