Asking a woman out on a first date is nerve wracking for most men. Some are too shy to approach a lady, some doesn't know what to say or how to say it, while some fear negative women answer to their invitation. Although most men think that women are hard to approach, keep in mind that they are just human as you. To help you out on asking a woman to a first date, here are some tips.

 

First thing to do is determine who you want to ask out. Once you know her, do a little background check like if she's single or if she knows you what is her attitude to your person. But if you saw her in a place where you couldn't really get any information about her, then your best bet will be checking out her body language. Try this: go near her and see if she looks anywhere near you, a snotty look on her face or if she got her arms crossed. If she isn't looking anywhere near you and doing the other things mentioned, then you should probably move on. If you still want to try then go ahead. But there is a big chance that she is not interested in you. It has been said that you would know if you can go out with a person just by looking at him for a second.

Now, if she's giving you the go signals, like smiling or making eye contact with you then most likely she is interested. You also have to do your part, smile back and glance at her. But don't stare at her, just give a quick glance then act as if you are doing something else like checking out the place or grooving to the music (if you're in a club). Give it a few minutes then try looking back at her again, if she's still smiling and looking at you, then it’s a definite go. When you approach her do not use pick up lines since pick up lines are so lame and sounds insincere. And that's what you do not want to come across as. When you have approached her, say something like "Hi" you can never go wrong with that. She will definitely say "hi" to you too. And from this moment on you need to start a conversation. Do not say too much but listen to the lady instead. Ask her simple questions, like "Are you out with friends?” just basic and simple questions. And again make sure you listen to what she has to say and not just hear what she's saying.

When you are already having a conversation with her keep it brief like a few minutes tops. You can gauge if she's having fun talking to you or not. If she does, you can ask her out already. One approach that really works is excusing yourself. For example, "Hey, its nice talking with you but I have to go now, can I get your number and call you tonight?" or you can just simply ask her to go drink coffee or watch a movie with you.

Remember to show the woman that you are confident. If you're not try to appear as confident as you can possibly be. It is a fact that women loves confidence so fidgeting or looking down while talking to her is really not a good idea if you want to ask out woman on a date. Show her that you are sure of yourself and you will get the date.

 

 

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