Russian dating industry growth during last years is incontestable fact. But another well known fact is that Russian dating sites are full of scam and other hidden dangers. To clear all these questions and to introduce you service I personally hold best in Russian dating industry, I decided to interview Daniel Jordan, PR Manager of Anastasia International, Inc., leading company in Russian-American introduction business.
Q: The history of Anastasia International as a company. How it got started?
A: Anastasia International (also known as Anastasia Web) was formed in Winchester, Kentucky, in 1993 by Elena and David Besuden. Elena and David met through an introduction service in 1992 and were married the same year. Initially, Anastasia International used catalogs to introduce profiles to men in the US. This format was used at first, because the internet wasn’t so well developed. The first Anastasia Internatioanal web site was launched on Jan 21, 1997. Also, in 1997, Anastasia International formed a partnership with IT Online, to handle its business operations in the CIS. There are now more than 90 employees working in the both offices, handling web development and maintenance, marketing, customer service, verification and other administrative services. The US office is the primary headquarters for the company and handles the sales and customer relations for the travel services offered by Anastasia International. In 1993 Anastasia International started offering specialty travel services. These travel packages, which include tours of the cities they’re visiting, allow the clients an opportunity to meet face-to-face with the women they’ve corresponded with via Anastasia International. To date, Anastasia International has organized the travel for more than 3,000 clients. During the 13 year history of the company, Anastasia International has served more than 78,000 clients from N. America, the EU, Australia and other parts of the world. Over 77,000 female clients in Russia and the former Soviet Union have registered their profiles on Anastasia International.
Q: How do you create good matches...do you have a success rate?
A: First, it’s important to clarify that Anastasia International is not a “matchmaking” company or a marriage agency. Anastasia International’s primary goal is to provide a comfortable and secure venue where people can introduce themselves and begin a correspondence (like any major online dating service).
Anastasia International works with credible local agencies who accept applications from women. Anastasia International does not own or operate any of these agencies. This is important, because it means Anastasia International is fair and objective when choosing which agencies are allowed to submit profiles to Anastasia International for review and possible posting on our web site.
Anastasia International also provides services or “tools”, like written and spoken translation services via the Anastasia International call and customer service center. This allows the clients to more clearly communicate with each other and decide if they would like to actually meet. It’s only after they actually meet, that a relationship can begin. We always emphasize this to our clients. They shouldn’t expect to simply find a woman’s profile, send her a few emails and expect her to arrive in their country ready to be his wife. This is the “mail-order-bride myth”. Like with any relationship, it’s necessary for the couples to meet in person and start building a relationship, before they make decisions about leaving their home countries and marriage.
If they make the decision to meet, then Anastasia International can help make all the travel arrangements, including advice about preparing their tourist visas to Russia. In summary, Anastasia International provides all the tools, from A to Z to help the clients discover a new partner. Providing these services is our primary business and we feel confident we’re the best in the industry. That’s why we’ve stayed in business so long and why we have thousands of client submitted testimonials about how Anastasia International helped them find their partner in life. (Please visit our testimonials web site: http://www.anastasiacomplaints.com/)
Q: What separates it from its competitors? Strong privacy and anti-scam policy? What do you promise to your clients that other companies do not?
A: Anastasia International doesn’t really have any “direct” competitors, because no other company provides the same variety of services, which includes our unique verification process and client-data information security. It’s this level of service, which makes Anastasia International the premium provider in our industry and separates us from potential competitors.
The verification process is the heart of our anti-fraud efforts and Anastasia International has spent more than a million dollars to have it implemented. Anastasia International has a two-phase process of verification. The first phase is to contact each woman who would like to have her profile listed on the Anastasia International site. A profile will not be posted, until our VBP agents (Verify By Phone), have contacted the woman directly and verified all her contact details. In this phase, the VBP agent has the authority to deny a posting if they feel something is not legitimate. All the VBP agents attend special training, prior to conducting verifications.
The second phase starts after the women start communicating with our male clients. After they’ve written some correspondence, our VBP agents again contact them by phone and ask them to detail their most recent communication. For example they might ask, “Did you recently speak with a man named Tom, if so, where is he from?” All the communication between our clients goes through the Anastasia International system, so we are able to constantly monitor for potential fraud. Anastasia International has even developed special software that flags suspicious correspondence, for example, emails requesting money. Our VBP agents contact all the actively communicating profiles at least once a month. They also open investigations anytime we receive a complaint from a male client.
Again if the VBP agent has any suspicions, the questionable profile will immediately be frozen for investigation. If it’s determined that the profile is fraudulent, it will be deleted and refund credits will be issued to any clients who were affected by the fraud. These are very strict methods, but this is what makes Anastasia International so special. Potential fraudsters know how strictly we run our operations, so many simply avoid our site. This is already a victory for us and well worth the large investment.
Q: How do you view the business of mail-order brides? Is it mostly just scams and why is it prone to scams? Are we seeing more scams out of Russia or the US?
A: First, the business of “mail-order-brides” really doesn’t exist. Any company that says you can simply choose a wife online and have her delivered to your house, is misleading its clients. It’s an unfortunate term that has been closely linked with our niche within the online dating industry. Many of our clients find us on the internet by searching via the keyword, mail-order-bride. This isn’t because they really want to “order” a bride; it’s just the term they constantly hear in the media. We’re working hard to move Anastasia Internationalay from this term by always making it clear to our clients and the media that such a service doesn’t exist and that Anastasia International is a venue for introduction, not matchmaking and bride ordering.
Our experience over the last 13 years is that the vast majority of woman in Russia seeking correspondence with men in foreign countries are sincere in their efforts. The fraud is mostly coming from the agencies and introduction companies (web sites) that take advantage of the women’s trust. They do this by sending fake messages and requests for money from the real profiles of women. Many times it can take months before a woman knows that her profile has been misused. By this time, her profile has been “blacklisted” for fraud and her chances of actually communicating with someone are reduced to almost zero. In these situations everyone loses, the male client, the woman and all the companies like Anastasia International who are trying to provide an honest service.
Fortunately, it’s not as common as the media would have the general public believe and efforts by companies like Anastasia International are making it harder and harder for these criminals to find a place to operate. Russian lAnastasia International enforcement is also very active in tracking-down these criminal sites and agencies.
Our entire industry is unfortunately prone to scams, because it’s an opportunity to prey on people’s most vulnerable emotions. It’s interesting to note that Match.com and Yahoo Personals, two of the largest online dating companies in the world, both have lAnastasia Internationalsuits against them for fraud. Of course, they’re innocent until proven guilty, but it show’s that these “scamming” accusations aren’t just limited to “Russian Mail-Order-Bride Services”.
Q: What needs to be done to improve the situation so that customers are protected AND so are the women who go to the states. (You mentioned a new US Congressional lAnastasia International that was recently passed)
A: Anastasia International has already implemented a verification process to help protect our customers. This is an elaborate and expensive process that includes both advance technology and specially trained staff. We feel our verification process is the best in the industry and currently provides the highest level of protection in the industry. LAnastasia International enforcement in Russia is also playing a major role in protecting both the foreign and domestic clients. If convicted of this type of fraud, a criminal can face heavy fines and time in prison.
The US Congress recently passed the, “International Marriage Broker Act” and it went into affect on March 5th, 2006. The lAnastasia International protects the rights and safety of foreign women, who emigrate into the U.S. as fiancés or wives of men living in the U.S. The main implication of this legislation is that 1-129F Fiancé and K-3 Spousal Visa petitions will now require that the petitioner provide information regarding any criminal history for specified crimes, including violent offenses, domestic abuse or sexual assault. (The Russian women are already required to provide similar criminal background information during the US visa application process).
Anastasia International is already in compliance with this legislation and we support any legislation that could potentially protect one of our female clients from a bad situation. Details about our compliance and how it affects our clients is available on our web site
Q: What is the whole process like? (I would like you to take me through the whole process of what you do with your customers.)
A: The process is not complicated and really isn’t much different than your regular online dating experience. The main difference is that Anastasia International must offer its client a more sophisticated service, because of the cultural and geographical challenges. In doing so, we definitely offer a more complete service versus a typical online dating service.
The process begins from two-sides. For the male clients, it begins when they decide to become a free member of our site. When their membership has been accepted they’re allowed to purchase credits and begin correspondence with any women’s profile they find interesting. Each letter costs one credit. This is because each message is translated into Russian and the reply they receive is translated into English. It’s that simple.
The women’s process begins when they decide to register their profile online or visit a local agency that is approved by Anastasia International. The majority of women choose to use an agency, because the agencies provide them with personalized services, like letter translation, advice on foreign relationships and profiling, to help them find men who match their interest. The agency then registers their profile with Anastasia International. After Anastasia International’s VBP agents have verified the profile, the women can begin receiving and sending correspondence for free.
If two people find each other and want to meet in person, we welcome them to use Anastasia International’s travel services; however some decide to organize their own trips. Anastasia International offers the clients a chance to meet their partners in Russia or Ukraine at socials which are organized by Anastasia International and include other clients from all over the world. This makes for a relaxed environment and reduces the Anastasia Internationalkwardness. Their trip also includes a cultural program that helps them gain a better understanding of the country they’re visiting. Regardless of their choice, our customer service representatives are available anytime to answer their questions and offer advice prior to their trip. This is a resource that’s commonly used by our clients and it’s not uncommon to have a surprise visit to our office by clients just wanting to say, “Thank You”.
Anastasia International (AI) is real money scam.
Warning!!! Do not waste your time and money on reading emails(to read you need to pay)from "girls". All these emails are sent by AI staff.
From my own experience.
John Miler
- real love is in Central Asia
|2009-03-24 21:14:20
Hi Peter,
If you are looking for love and family oriented woman you should go to Uzbekistan my friend found a lady there.
www.uzbekdate.vpweb.ca
www.bestasianbrides.net
Russ
- scam
|2008-12-27 17:15:39
Peter - how do you know that the emails are from AI staff? Have you been out to Russia to meet someone.
Has anyone actually met someone through AI?
Ivan
- Fake letters from Anastasia's girls
|2009-02-16 03:16:51
I believe this is a way they have to make the customers pay more than they really should. I would suggest that you do not read the bunch of messages you most likely are or will be getting. Instead, contact the ladies first. I recently got a mail from an interesting lady (I am hoping it was real) and I replied to her without actually reading "her first letter." According to their records, the letter was read yesterday (Feb 14) and I am still waiting for the reply. If it works I will let you guys know. I'm pretty sure the lady does exist, but it's only logical that they are going to try to make as much as they can before you get any actual contact info.
Milt
- I am using Anastasia-Key to not getting scammed
|2009-02-23 19:32:55
I am looking for a wife potentially and the ladies in the Ukraine ae simply stunning!
I use Anastasia and I have two big recommendations:
1) Ignore most all of the messages recieved if they are recieved without you initiating this. The web site admits that the agencies are free to send ut that first message. So it is not the lady writing you.
2) pay for a videochat as soon as possible - to see that the lady is real and that she is into you - like the written communication has indicated.
I have done videochats with 4 ladies and I am currently getting very interested in one lady - she is a stunning beauty and is sweet and smart. she has the body of Angelina Jolie - without the fake silicon, and the personality of a Jennifer Gardner - I would never, never, never find a lady this amazing in the USA!!. Of course, I won't turn it into a big deal at all until we meet. Hopefully that will happen in April!
Rand
- Rand
|2009-03-11 04:58:09
Good Post Milt!
I completely agree. I have been corresponding with a Ukrainian Women for almost 2 months now. Total out of pocket so far 0! I can completely understand a a letter translation fee as some of our letters get quite long...LOL
I have really found the values and personalities of the Ukrainian Women to be a far better match to what I am truly looking for in a wife!
I am sorry to say... I have dated here in the US... haven't found one as interested in me...as she was herself!
Also I found the search engine on Anastasia to be the best one so far.
This lady has shared many details of her life there with me... and responds to questions that I ask. I am sure SHE is personally writing these letters too me... and I really like the Video-chat idea! I'm am going to set that up as soon as possible.
Thanx Milt
good luck guys!
John Miler
- Ukraine is also waste of time and Nikolaev
|2009-03-24 20:47:40
Every body is right that Anastasiya is a scamm the task of agency is to get as much money they can.If you are sick and tired of scam i recomend you go to Uzbekistan,Kirgystan and Russia Siberiya where scam agency do not operate.
I recomend every body to use
www.uzbekdate.vpweb.ca
www.bestasianbrides.net
John
mike
- if you want to be treated like crap...
|2009-05-09 10:37:28
If you want to be treated like GARBAGE then this web site is for you. This company SUCKS from its main office in Maine in the USA to their customer service department for the website which I believe is in Moscow all the way down to its so-called agencies and translators. I have never in all my life encountered a company that is so clueless as to what customer service is about as this company. Yes, sure you can communicate with ladies by writing and receiving letters from the ladies but be prepared to literally have to decipher the poor translations of letters to maybe understand what the lady has written to you about.
This company's number 1,2 and 3 priority is to count the money that you spend on their products. Every single time I have brought some kind of issue to their attention their first solution to the problem was to use another of their services which would therefore cost me more money. They have no problem solving capabilities whatsoever. They defy logic and use no common sense at all. Their logic is so twisted that they have and enforce insane policies from Mars that actually... get this... stand in the way of bringing two people together. Now correct me if I am wrong, but isn't that the sole function of their company? Isn't that the solitary purpose of the business that they are in... to bring people together? But yet, when a lady writes in her letter to me, "get my contact information from the agency" they refused to give me the lady's address. But ... if the lady actually writes her address in a letter to be translated... then the address will be included in the letter. How is that for no common sense and sheer stupidity. This may be only one specific example of their insanity but believe me I have been dealing with them for several years and this is the norm for them. Getting them to do the right thing in many circumstances is like trying to get a child to clean their room and do their homework and eat all their vegetables.
I can't say it loud enough or enough times. These people are from another planet and have no business being in business. You, the paying customer, are their last concern.
Sonny T
- From the old days of letter exchange
|2009-05-09 20:13:35
I used "European Connection" letter exchange and men's Profile catalog in the late 90's. The internet dating is new to me. First, problem that I see with AI is I have not seen and happy couple vids. I have not seen a couples video that they met through AI and was the best. All I have seen is guys telling me how great AI is without no hint if they are successful. Second, too perfect women photo. In the catalog era there was a variety of women in the magizines. Seening only photos from a glamour fashion shoot, turns me off. I want to see her in nornal world. She is not going to wake up ever morning looking hotter than a playboy centerfold. Third, because of the cost of the letters, most first letters would be like a job interview instead of getting to know her. They don't tell you how many letters she has recieved or how long she has been on site.
Ivan Petrov
- how not to be scamed
|2009-06-15 21:02:24
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|2009-06-24 18:58:58
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Edword Johnson
- Recomended people in Ukraine
|2009-07-07 12:46:40
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Alex Mcc
- Travellers beware
|2009-08-05 19:52:30
For those to travel to Ukraine etc BEWARE it is only the start of your real worries.
I work in the Ukraine 4 weeks of the year. I have meet three girls in three diffrent cities over the last 2 years via the agency. Two forgot how to speak English and needed a per hour Translator. They use the same taxi driver and his car - per hour and seem to like meals and dates at a great distance - whilst the taxi waits for you and runs up the bill. On all three occassion on the first date you get the honest sweet good girl wants a family conversation. On the second or third date you get to go 'shopping' were all three ladies ran around a shop collecting clothes and purfumes and then expect you to pay. One girl ran up a bill of
,200 dollars and even informed they accept credit cards here -Then she said we could buy a lap top for here so we could stay in touch more privately and when I paid for the English lession we would no longer need the agency - how nice of her! I said thanks but no thanks and left for my hotel paying for nothing. Trust me all 3 ladies pulled this shopping stunt. You are nothing but a wallet being milked by(in my view) the agencies staff who must be instructing the girls how to behave in this way. I am sure their might be real ladies using the service - good luck in finding one - you will need it. In the mean time be very aware of the interst in your wallet.
Geff R
- Travellers should be on alert
|2009-08-05 19:58:12
Well said Alex Mcc. I have had the identical experience twice. These girls can eat money and have no real interest in you.
Find a girl who speaks english - phone or video chat with her. Exchange email addresses and in no curcumstances go to Ukraine - arrange and pay for a mutual holiday elsewhere - meet a 'real' person who wants a real relationship with you or go to Ukraine and get robbed.
Besides Ukraine is expensive and hostile.
Jay Dobs
- stop wasting the time
|2009-09-16 14:23:50
Hello every body!
Its impossible to change these girls in Ukraine .1 all of them want money and every body has a reach man in Ukraine they use you people to get incomme from you agencies lie to you tell you og 65 years old not a problemme every body wants to live the country.its BS
all girls on Anastasiya and vidio chat
get payed .did you ask the question why when its 3 in the morning the girl chats?because she gets payed by the the agency.if you want to be scamed in Ukraine you are welcomme .remember all income of Ukraine comes from scam.
Chose another country where low works well like Kazahstan,Uzbekistan,Russia Siberiya.