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When you meet new friend through online dating website sooner or later you start talking via emails, chat rooms, phone or instant messengers. But until you will met somewhere in the real life it’s important to know guy better. And as often happens in real life all stories from his life were only tales he told you to invite you to the bar. This article will help to identify liars earlier than they will involve you into their game, how to when guy lie and will learn some other online dating tips.
There are two types of liars, one, who say too much and other, who don’t say enough. The people of the first group usually show off their abilities, money or work. If were near the ocean they will tell that they were swimming with sharks. Whatever they do they will present themselves as heroes. The second group consists of those, who hide the truth and this category is more dangerous in most cases. During talk they change the subject every time when you ask questions about their personal life, marital status or if they have committed any crime. If you suspect him of telling a lie, ask him what are the things he likes in people. Then tell about your own. Let him know that the most important thing is honesty. When he is trying to change subject of your question try to force him to stay on the topic. Say that his answer must be very interesting and you would really like to know the story. If he is nervous, looking elsewhere, rapidly drinking or grabbing food, then probably, he still wants to change the topic because his glass is empty or needs to walk to the washroom than you probably see a liar. Basically the same scheme works when you talk online with someone. You can’t see emotions but when your partner is thinking too long or change topics you can return him back to your question. However it’s not recommended to get mad about small lies. Sometimes we lie that we were waiting so long for a bus, when in fact we had to finish that make-up. It’s totally different story and you should not punish your partner only because he wants to avoid conflict by using small lies. It’s almost impossible to change liar behavior. If you feel that such person is not your type don’t lie. Often shy persons can’t break relationships and become liars. Stay honest with liar and don’t worry about breaking your relationships especially if they are in early stage. Other articles on this topic |